Properly.

Dear Journal,

What is 'proper'?

Anything can be proper in my opinion, but if it is too stiff, it is not.

i don't mind formal evenings and such occasions as long as there's a good style - even if they are properly improper. As long as people won't harm others.

Informal occassions are often also quite enjoyably proper - if the good style is preserved somehow.

Picnicks are not proper in my opinion in most cases, i should mention.

-- Yours, Chea Allin, properly improper party admirer.